No, Neb, I am not answering your AMA for you.
In that case, I can't honestly say. VILE is pretty straight forward in that if Carmen lets you stay, then you're part of VILE, like everyone else in VILE. It doesn't sound that Neb showing up at ACME, or even being found by ACME, would make her part of ACME, or would even grant her the opportunity to become ACME. I have to conclude then that her showing up at ACME ultimately would have had little impact on who she became, other than being another turn in the road.
The next thing down the line would be Neb purposely showing up to join ACME as an adult, which would mean she was far more with it than she was in the original scenario. Not really the same person at that point, but lets go ahead.
How she turned out would first rely heavily on how her background is treated. If say, only Chase knew or ACME higher-ups and they decided to help her figure out her situation while keeping her safe early on, Neb would probably be much more stable than she is now. If it followed a similar path to how it went in VILE, with her situation remaining largely left on herself while ACME acted as a passive sanctuary, she'd be less stable.
Next would be events. At ACME she wouldn't have had to endure ALS or Flag, and the highly structured nature of ACME may have kept her from drifting too much. Unless it didn't. I'm not ACME, so I can only guess. That said, her time with Flag wasn't all bad, and she'd still have to deal with Seraphim.
If we look at the "more law abiding or less" she'd be more abiding, until/unless it came to a point where something she needed couldn't be obtained legally. There's a good chance she'd chafe at ACME's black/white stance on things, and VILE would never really be the enemy to her, but loyalty to her current protectors would keep her from switching sides. That said, the tower heist could change her feelings on VILE, depending on what she's told.
Who she connected with at ACME would also play a part, as well as if anyone ever learns about her...talent. I can see Neb telling Chase if they got close, but first they'd have to get close. If they did form a relationship (not a romantic one), Neb would be sturdier now. Maybe. I don't know how well she'd bond with other ACMEs because she'd probably be just as flighty as she is with other VILEs. How her existence/situation is handled would definitely affect that as well.
Overall, she'd probably stronger in some areas, but weaker in others, based on the different dynamics of the two groups. ACME's structure and outward legitimacy would help in some ways, but VILE's organic-ness and anonymity helps her in other ways. After that, it's events and personal relationships that would determine what she becomes.