(( Popping in to say thank you for the character birthday wishes and to apologize for my lack of activity here. IRL came at me hard and fast... and it's still kind of going that way. Not sure when things will slow down here again, but I am certainly looking forward to when they do. ))
I think the real literal and socially challenged part is that nd (neurodivergent) people make sure sarcasm is understood as sarcasm so our intentions are understood bc intent being misconstrued feels so so very uncomfortable and being nd people think we're weird and avoid us or we don't know how to interact with a largely non nd people because they conform more to societal ideas that we have difficulty with or are unable to process. Like gender or some forms of humor!